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[quote=Anonymous]I had a rough 8 or 9 months after a loss. It coincided with some of my own health issues. It was an awful year. I did not talk to my employers about it, but I did have challenges in doing my everyday work. I had been with the family for 5 or so years at that point. I'm a few years out of the worst part of grief and still with the same employers. My performance is definitely good now. Can you find a way to be away from the house? You may need to separate from her so you're not the primary caregiver or sounding board. Giving her the info for grief counseling may be useful, but it's not going to heal her overnight. Leaving her to do her work maybe the kind of thing she needs to throw herself into fully to make it through this. Is working outside the house feasible? If not, can you tell her your workload is out of control and she won't see you much during the day? [/quote]
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