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[quote=Anonymous]In response to poster 05/12/2017 12:22, I agree that it should not be a big deal to grille all 8 chicken breasts in a package while you are doing 4, but when the HF and AP relationship is not on good footing, the AP will turn that into the HF is forcing her to cook dinner for the entire family. I rather not go there. I rather cook meals for me, HD, and HK and have the AP cook food for herself (meals that occur when she is not on the clock). This means if she is on the clock for dinner and responsible for feeding the HK, she cooks enough to feed herself and the HK. We (HM and HD) eat our own food. Yes, it would and should be a non-issue to throw a few more patties on the grille for the HM and HD but like I said, it can bite back when the relationship goes south.

And that is my point...if my relationship with my aupair ever came to this...where it is somehow an injustice to throw the entire package of chicken breasts on the grill a counple of nights a week when I am cooking homemade meals all of the other nights...then I would 100% discuss this with the au pair and if still an issue I would go into rematch or get out of the program.  I refuse to play any ridiculous tit for tat games and I would never voluntarily choose to live with someone where our relationship was so sour that she couldn't see the practicality of meal prep.  Again, it is completely transparent in our interview process. [/quote]

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