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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For those that say ditch, how should the period be between matching and arrival? [b]How often do you communicate and what do you talk about? Especially if you went over everything during matching (comprehensive info sharing both ways)?[/b]

Just wondering if I am overreacting. Half of my gut says ditch and half says it is normal prearrival type communication.  I've had other au pairs and there have been gaps in conversation before but deep in my gut I feel I made a mistake and keep looking at other candidates. Too immature and not into it. I don't see the excitement.

Also...how do i tell her nicely that I am canceling??[/quote]

We talk about interesting things we do that might be of interest to the AP. We also ask about what's happening in the APs' life, like studying, exams, etc. But there are also things that we did not get to talk about during the matching process, like family history, etc. We probably exchange an email/text every 2-3 weeks. [/quote]

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