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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you honestly have to do what's best for your situation, your child and you.

It's a different scenario for each person. We did daycare starting at age 1 and absolutely loved it. Even though DC 2 won't arrive until later this year, I am planning on doing the same thing - home for a year and then daycare.

I decided on daycare over nanny because during the year I was home with DD, I was around nannies non-stop and was less-than-impressed. Most were constantly on their phones or chatting with each other.  I loved the constant stimulation at daycare (8 kids in a class with two teachers) and the early learning and play.

But, our scenario was perfect for us - and we really loved our daycare, the director and the other families.

But, the most important thing is how you feel and the needs of your child.  Good luck with your decision![/quote]

Yeah, I hear that "I saw bad nannies" from mothers justifying daycare before.  I don't buy it.  Working only four days a week, and alternating the day I take off, I take my child to classes with other kids and their nannies and have seen the vast majority to be more engaged and loving than the other mothers.  I have also heard raves from teachers and librarians about our beloved nanny.

OP, I am in your situation and have decided to bite the bullet and send my three-year-old to a great preschool and have his beloved nanny pick him up and bring him home for his quiet time and reading.  He will continue to nap in his own little bed and do his usual afternoon activities with nanny.  I think eight to ten hours in a daycare room is too much for a preschooler.  It's interesting that none of the top preschools offer aftercare.  [/quote]

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