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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The difference, angry nannies, is that the MB has a child with special needs. That's a whole other ball of wax. If you have been privileged to live your life without children so far or without children with special needs, you simply cannot understand. If you want some perspective, head over to the special needs boards and just read for a few hours. Until you have walked a mile in their shoes, park the judgement somewhere else.[/quote]

Live-in nanny here.  I've worked (and lived) with a few children who happened to have SN.  I see two problems with OP's situation.

1.  MB deliberately excluded her child from a sibling's birthday celebration.  She had a choice.  She could have started it at home with everyone and left that 1 child with the nanny when that child seemed to be heading for over-stimulation, but she chose not to do so.  I couldn't work with a parent who would deliberately set up the family dynamic to ostracize one child, and I understand why OP said that.  OP, please find another family.

2.  OP has posted before.  Stay-at-home MB who is never actually home.  Multiple kids, 1 with SN.  She feels overwhelmed and is venting.  My issue is this:  When venting about a family, it needs to be kept general.  By giving all the extra details (SAH, never home, sn, etc.), OP is letting anyone reading DCUM who knows the family know how unhappy she is, and she's setting the family up for questions/judgement.  It's unprofessional.  OP, please find another family.[/quote]

I know for a FACT that there must be multiple nannies on this forum with dynamics similar to Op's (sahm, more than one kid and at least one with special needs) because I'm in a similar situation and I am not the op. So you clearly don't know what you are talking about. I've made a thread or 2 praising my family and have made threads to vent, so just because Op vents doesn't mean she needs a new job.[/quote]

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