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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We are expecting twins and have one other DC who will be 2 when the twins arrive. DC is currently attending daycare that can continue through preschool and our plan is to keep DC there and then have other childcare for the twins, either a nanny or an Au Pair. For the last few weeks I've been completely on board mentally with getting an Au Pair, however, the more threads I read here on DCUM and elsewhere have me concerned and seeking advice on this. The concerns I've read surround the maturity and experience level of 18-25 yr old Au Pairs and their ability to handle twins. The upside of an Au Pair to me is the cost savings compared to a nanny. Also, DH travels extensively for work (half the week, every week) and I figured having another adult in the house at all times would be helpful, especially in emergency situations, etc. (granted I'm aware they cannot work more than 45 hours). We have a basement for the Au Pair to live in, but I'm also not entirely sold on having a "roommate" again.

My questions are: Do you think twins add another layer of complexity that I need to consider when weighing my options? Do you think it's best to find an experienced nanny for the twins for at least the first few years, or should I give an Au Pair a try? If we did go with a nanny, what might I expect to pay for twins in (FFX suburbs)?

I am slightly concerned about money and was optimistic about the cost savings of having an Au Pair (our HHI is $220K, FWIW...and just to give a complete picture of childcare costs, our DC's daycare is $1800/month). Bottom line: we are not in a position where "money is no object", because in that case I'd certainly go the nanny route and possibly a mother's helper for the evenings...but I think we do need to be money-conscious given our HHI and need to really weigh the pros/cons here. Would love any genuine advice or similar experiences you can share! Thanks![/quote]o

Stay home,I think is better for you.[/quote]

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