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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP.  Some of you read way too much into things.  One PP said I was cruel, how exactly?  I didn't in any way ridicule FN or her emotions.  I in fact respect FN and greatly appreciate the care she gave DC.

To shed a little extra light, FN DID have some questionable behavior when she worked for us, such as getting upset when DC wanted to be with mommy or daddy and not her, getting really emotional with DC out of the blue.  I know some of you are going to read this and say "oh she's just a loving nanny.  You're a bitch MB!" but you had to be there.  There seemed to be something going on under the surface and since I didn't know what it was, it kind of bothered me.

To answer some questions PPs threw out there.  Her medical condition was undisclosed when we hired her.  We did give her a glowing reference, but when asked about her health, I didn't lie, of course.  She had no problem finding other work, btw.  I'm not an idiot and think I have some right to tell her how to behave or emote and I'm not judging her.  I asked what you all thought and thank the PPs who gave their (respectful) opinions and shed light on what FN might be feeling.[/quote]

Oh whatever.  You came here to ridicule her.  You fired a good nanny because you probably felt threatened by her attachment to your child and the amount of time they spent together. Some MBs like you always look for something to complain about out if feeling guilty because they don't spend enough time with their kids.

also your point of all of a sudden coming back and listing other things she allegedly did to show she possessed "questionable behavior" is typical because you didnt get the responses you wanted.  Saying she would get "upset" when the kid would want mommy or daddy???? Well NEWSFLASH when nannies are at your home they are there to work and have the kid with THEM.  Whenever parents do the whole "Im working from home today" or "Ill be in and out" or just aren't considerate enough to separate themselves from the nannies working quarters its a complete headache trying to get the kids to understand they are supposed to be with the nanny and nannies feel like they aren't doing their jobs when they allow kids to constantly try to get to their parents. Its like they are playing tug of war and its frustrating for them, so yeah she probably was upset. You shouldn't even be around if she was there to work. GMAFB

Im so happy that poor woman has found a family that probably appreciates her way more than you did.[/quote]

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