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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A lot of people are not good bosses and suck at having those difficult conversations. Particularly if MB and DB aren't on the same page. It kind of sounds to me like you are working hard at all of the wrong things, OP. It sounds like you are working really hard to engage a reluctant elementary school child (pre-teen?), but what they really need from you is to do more tidying or whatever tasks she is texting you about. Let go of any notions that you have about what a good nanny looks like, don't work so hard, and just do things that you think will make your MB and DBs lives easier. I am sure that I am alone here, but I would prefer to come home to a clean house rather than finding that my kids and nanny had played games and left me the pieces to pick up. I would actually prefer it if my nanny would arrange a playdate, and while the girls are playing, fold a load of laundry, pop something in the oven for dinner, and sit and read a magazine for an hour. [/quote] She is a nanny not their effing maid/cook/housecleaner. Pick up your own filthy house.[/quote]
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