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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've worked for a family that had twins and no idea how to cope so they hired 24/7 help. I worked for them when the twins were 9 months and the girl before me had stuffed their sleep patterns, but their older sibling (around 3) had huge sleeping trouble and I think the mum didn't want to make the same mistakes / have 3 children who were all poor sleepers. The dad wanted to be a dad but was of no practical help. I've worked for a family who had regular help, not quite 24/7 because they had 4 children and Dad's work was busy, mums work required frequent trips away and the grandparents placed demands on the family too. I guess if you have children and then discover you hate being a parent what do you do? You can't give the kids back. I truly think the best thing in that situation is to hire someone who will love your kids, and help raise them[/quote] In the case of the families you mentioned they should have stopped with one kid, and you can give children up for adoption to people who actually want to love them and will be permanent fixtures in their lives and not just paid to care.[/quote]
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