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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I personally think there lies some form of attraction on his part.

Trust me on this:
[b]No married man should ever invite the nanny for dinner/wine sans the kiddos.[/b]

Does his wife know about this??
I wouldn't do overnights if his wife isn't there.

He would have easy access to your room and that is a recipe for extreme disaster.

I see lots of red flags here.

Careful![/quote]

Oh please.
I'm all for everyone sitting together for dinner, however sometimes that doesn't happen. Depending on how old the kids are and what time their bedtime is, the nanny might eat after they go to bed. It's probably more relaxing and she can eat in peace anyway.
If DB gets home after the kids go to bed, I honestly don't see anything wrong with DB and nanny having dinner together. Or drinking a glass of wine with dinner.
You people are so uptight.[/quote]

Whenever this has happened the kids are always down already. I leave early on my overnight evenings and come back later on around 9 or so and he will still have food out or offer to get some out. I eat late myself and just bring my own and prefer to eat alone in my room or in the kitchen after he is out of it. But when I do that he comes back to get something and then will chat. I honestly just thought he wanted me to feel comfortable around him initially but now I just feel like because they don't see each other enough he is putting it on me instead.  Like wanting some feminine energy or something [/quote]

I'm the PP.
Maybe you're just reading too much into it.
To me it sounds like he's just being nice - offering you dinner knowing you're not home to make your own. Maybe he thinks you are uncomfortable to make something there or whatever. It really seems like he's just being nice.
When you leave after the kids are down and then come back, he doesn't know if you went out to have dinner or run an errand, so he offers you food. No big deal.
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