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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can only go so far with orchestrating her personal activities, no?[/quote] I assume you're responding to me, the visa stickler PP. Go after someone else, troll. I abide by the State Department regulations, and I expect my APs to do so too. I'm up front about this in the matching process. I could tell you I'm generous with them (true) and have never had a rematch (also true), but I'm sure you'll have an answer to that, as you do for everything. Must be exhausting to be you. [/quote] If only any other family abided by all the rules. Most believe their above the rules. Ha, ha.[/quote] Just a couple of examples of threads openly discussing breaking the rules by host parents on this very forum. I know I read these threads, and saw a general consensus that it's against the rules but people do it because their APs are happy to make extra money. When it benefits you, it's okay for her to work extra, but not if it doesn't benefit you. Hypocrisy. Exactly. How many posts do we see where host parents are discussing the ins and outs of going over their hours, bending this rule or that rule, and everyone talks about how its okay since it doesn't hurt anyone and the AP is happy to work for extra money. What hypocrites you all are. [/quote] No, most of us say we never go over hours no matter what, because it's against the rules. Clearly you "read" only what you want to read. [/quote][/quote]
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