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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here- she has sick days and I'm not sick day shaming. Take the leave and get better. I'm also not mad because I don't have a backup plan. And yes- she is not responsible for my backup plan. However- as a mom, as soon as a nanny calls out sick my mind starts racing. I need to call the sitters, MIL, boss ect. I don't have time to spend on the phone talking about your guilt.[/quote] I totally agree. "Ok. Hope you feel better soon." That's pretty much what I say when our nanny calls in sick an hour before she's scheduled to arrive. I immediately need to start triaging the day and figure out a plan. THere's no shaming of the nanny - we are all human. But there is an immediate, and potentially significant, impact on my house and everyone else depending on us. And one day, versus 3-5 consecutive days straddling a weekend, when each day is a question mark in terms of the nanny coming to work, is a pretty diffierent scenario in terms of stress, planning and strain on everyone involved. So I totally get it OP. [/quote]
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