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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here- she has sick days and I'm not sick day shaming. Take the leave and get better. I'm also not mad because I don't have a backup plan. And yes- she is not responsible for my backup plan. However- as a mom, as soon as a nanny calls out sick my mind starts racing. I need to call the sitters, MIL, boss ect. I don't have time to spend on the phone talking about your guilt.[/quote] If you adjust your attitude even slightly, to show a small amount of genuine concern for your nanny, I'm sure she'll feel less guilty and stop "wasting" your time. Consider all of the evenings when you walk in right at her end time but still want to hear about your kid's day. Or in the mornings when you're having a hard time with something and she listens to you complain. Your nanny isn't telling you she doesn't have time to care about you and your family is she? Try some damn compassion and you might just solve your problem. But you probably can't be bothered to actually give a shit about the woman caring for your child. [/quote]
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