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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This relationship doesn't sound like a fit OP.  I think you should look for something else.

I'm an MB and I agree with your opinions about managing the child's behavior.  But if the parents don't agree, or if they can't or won't change their behavior there is little you can do.

And these lines of your last update I find disturbing and inappropriate: 
     I said nope! he knows you're going to comfort him      
    and frankly this is disgusting and we shouldn't give him
    an audience. I turned the kitchen lights off and pushed
    her towards the other room and told him no thank you,
    we don't want to be around this.

If you are in such a spot that you are telling your employer that her behavior is disgusting, and that you are physically pushing her, then you have passed the point at which you and the parents can work together well.[/quote]

It was disgusting and very disturbing. I think she needed to hear that from me. This is the only 3 year old she's ever had to deal with, guess how many I've had to deal with over the years. I called his actions disgusting not hers. And I didn't push her perse, but more so guided her out of the room.  When you have more Han one child you have to think about both of them not just the one that is acting out. His brother is soaking it all in and he shouldn't have to be a part of that. I don't regret it at all. And she thanked me and has been leaving him to his own devices since when he has a tantrum[/quote]

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