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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks everyone. I understand she needed to look out for herself and her job. But to accept a job with a family she has never met and not worked for makes absolutely no sense. I'm also very upset with our nanny share partners. I would have been transparent about preschool and considering a share with another family that they are friends with, I just expected more from them. We aren't friends but they have always been lovely to my son, my wife and me. I can't imagine doing this. I'm a very transparent person. I would have said, "family, we are havibg another baby and it would be more convenient to have a share with our friends. We would like to offer nanny the position." Maybe that sounds odd, but I can work with honesty. I just feel like my family and more importantly my son were shut out of the equation. Believe me this move would not have boded well with them if they were on our shoes.

I don't even want this nanny in my home. She told my wife she just found out the other family was pregnant and doing preschool Friday, that they said "you will work for us and our friends". [b]Like I said the other couple works from home and I'm sure the nanny likes that rather than our house where she is alone with kids.[/b]
I had asked the nanny her thoughts on preschool and she had said to wait another year.

Lesson learned. I feel so dumb. Why did I let these terrible people into my life?[/quote]

Most nannies hate having parents hover, so what you see as a benefit is more likely to be a problem.[/quote]

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