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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you try to force her into taking those days as vacation, then you've set her up to think that being transparent about her personal plans gets punished. You offered her those days off, paid, so she made plans - if you hadn't made it an extended weekend, she wouldn't have. It's weird to punish her for using the bonus days you gave off. If I were in your nanny's shoes, I'd never mention my personal plans to you again, and I'd keep really firm boundaries. [/quote] This. I'd just stop talking to you about everything. And I'd probably keep my eye out for a better position with someone who doesn't treat me like a commodity. You don't need her, so what the hell does it matter what she's doing? I'm sure you're one of those parents who try to advertise that the extra days off are a benefit (to justify a low rate), then begrudge her the days when the time comes. [/quote]
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