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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To each her own.  But wow.  You may get the important lessons here, but they are too nuanced for a 13 year old girl, who just sees another teenager, just 5 years older, have sex with someone else condoned by you right in her own home.

What does the HM of the girlfriend think of her spending all her time with your family and not theirs?

You seem to get an unusual thrill about being the "cool" HM.

I am no religious fanatic, and lived with my husband before we got married for several years, but we didn't do it in front of a 13 year old who is just developing her own sexuality.

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I'm sure your teenager realizes that people have sex. Even you, her parents. Why is it bad for her to see people in committed relationships? Also you should be having conversations with your 13 year old about these things, explaining the nuances she may miss. Sex in a committed relationship is not bad, you want a partner who respects you and treats you nicely like AP, but as your mother is prefer if you waited until (marriage, after high school, etc).[/quote]

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