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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've formed bonds with all my charges but with appropriate boundaries. I rarely have contact with my former charges, mostly because they've moved on to different phases in their lives. I love my current charges but one day this job will end like all the others. I will miss them, of course, but they're not my children so I don't feel grieving is necessary. No one died. I'm a great nanny but I'm also a mother and my child is who I give my unconditional love to, much like these parents whom you say don't understand. I feel some nannies form unhealthy attachments and the parents see that. These kids aren't yours...so move on. Not trying to be snarky...just being straightforward.[/quote]
Some parents feel blessed when they find a nanny who treats her charge "as her own." I guess you wouldn't be that sort of nanny.[/quote]
You're being very presumptuous as to what sort of nanny I am. My charges are loved and cared for and in some ways I treat them better than my own kid. However, they are NOT mine and that's where boundaries come in. It would creep me out if someone was acting like my child was theirs and I wouldn't do that to others.[/quote]   You are missing something here they never been.. They will never be like my child  sorry you are so rude to think that way!  I would treat them just like mine that probably makes sense !not everybody or all nannys think like the way you think.[/quote]

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