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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why would anyone not invite the nanny? Somehow I just can't imagine that.[/quote]

Because they're an employee, not the child's friend. [/quote]

The nanny is your employee but your child's full time caregiver.  You clearly do not have either children or a nanny or your would never post something that stupid.  [/quote]

Some nannies are full time caregivers, some are not. You are clearly an idiot for failing to see this glaring differentiation.

I have adored all of my charges, both full and part time, but do I feel entitled, or even WANT, to go to their birthday that is either full of the parent's friends and their kids (non of whom I know...awkward small talk, yay!) or a bunch of 7-9 year olds who could care less that I am there? No.  I am an adult with my own life, ESPECIALLY on the weekends. I celebrate with my charges in our own special way, and it is much more meaningful than me showing up at a party where they notice my presence for approximately 30 seconds.

If the nanny is invited, it's likely because the NF doesn't want to bruise his/her ego and she/he already seems a little unclear on boundaries. [/quote]

First, OP asked for ONLY MBs to respond.  Second, you need to grow up and learn that people will disagree with you.  Learn to respond to that disagreement without being so disagreeable.  Third, any nanny has the right to refuse to attend a party.

I feel it is very wrong and insulting to not invite my chid's nanny to a celebration of the child she care for every day, OP.  As an MB who respects my child's nanny enormously, I have always invited her to any celebration that is centered on my child.  [/quote]

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