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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why would anyone not invite the nanny? Somehow I just can't imagine that.[/quote] Because they're an employee, not the child's friend. [/quote] The nanny is your employee but your child's full time caregiver. You clearly do not have either children or a nanny or your would never post something that stupid. [/quote] Some nannies are full time caregivers, some are not. You are clearly an idiot for failing to see this glaring differentiation. I have adored all of my charges, both full and part time, but do I feel entitled, or even WANT, to go to their birthday that is either full of the parent's friends and their kids (non of whom I know...awkward small talk, yay!) or a bunch of 7-9 year olds who could care less that I am there? No. I am an adult with my own life, ESPECIALLY on the weekends. I celebrate with my charges in our own special way, and it is much more meaningful than me showing up at a party where they notice my presence for approximately 30 seconds. If the nanny is invited, it's likely because the NF doesn't want to bruise his/her ego and she/he already seems a little unclear on boundaries. [/quote]
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