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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Jeez people,  she  ASKED if it was ok.  Op said no,  problem solved. Obviously she felt comfortable enough with OP to ask without fear of reprisals and now you want to fire her for being honest? Next time something comes up she's not going to ask,  that's for damn sure. If you fire her or berate her for asking,  you're going to end up with one of the lying by omission PPs upthread. Whatever happened to no such thing as a stupid question? Only applies to your questions,  huh? You'll end up with a nanny who's so paralyzed with fear over losing her job by asking the wrong question that she'll never speak and then you'll be complaining about that. Drop it. Seriously. Now she knows where you stand. Somewhere along the way op have her the impression this might be ok or at the very least they had an open enough relationship she felt comfortable asking questions even if they might seem dumb.

Furthermore,  we don't know but maybe op had asked her to do something unreasonable,  or too many errands or so knows what,  and this was nannys way of saying I don't have time unless I go during nap time so scale back your demands.  We don't know the full story. [/quote]

No adult who even considers it acceptable to leave two toddlers alone will ever be trusted w/ my kids.  No responsible adult thinks that is a good idea.

Period.[/quote]

+1  It is like asking, "Is it okay if I have sex with your husband?"  Never acceptable and a sign of a much bigger issue.  [/quote]

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