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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I really hate when my nanny tries to accompany us into the exam room.  Frankly, I don't need her going to the doctor's office with me, but she insists.  [/quote]

Why do you hate it?  What does your nanny do that is so hateful?  [/quote]

We do not live in DC, actually we live in a rural area where nannies are uncommon.  I once had a doctor roll her eyes over me bringing a nanny with me, so I don't do it anymore.  Around here, it's seen no differently than having a 2+ ct diamond ring, just kind of tacky, in a flaunting your money kind of way.  Also, since I don't wear dress clothes to work, it makes me appear as if I'm a SAHM who can't handle my own child without a nanny.[/quote]

You chose the perception over the reality, so your child's primary caregiver is left at home?  Wow.[/quote]

I am my child's primary caregiver.  I am sorry you seem to have a problem with our situation.[/quote]

You spend more waking hours with your child than your nanny does?  If so, good for you.  If not, nope, your nanny is the primary caregiver, no matter how temporary that situation is.[/quote]
Primary caregiver is someone who takes responsibility of child under their care e.g, teacher, nanny, daycare worker etc. unrelated to how many waking hours spend with child. It's not a contest between parent and caregiver.[/quote]

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