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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Boy OP, you sure are a trooper (no pun intended here) for walking four miles a day taking your charge to his activities.

I would be livid, even more so knowing that his mother doesn't even do that! If she wants you to take her son to a daytime activity AND it is two miles away, then she should allow you to drive there. Most especially since she does.

I think it is hypocritical of her to ask you to do things that she knows are not easy to do alone. I wouldn't take this as a compliment, I would take it as an insult. It's like she acknowledges these things are hard to do, but since you are a nanny, you shouldn't complain about doing them since you are just "a nanny." And she can ask you to do anything + either you comply or lose your job.

Since you are not interested in quitting, then there really is nothing else I can say. [/quote]

Except none of what OP describes sounds difficult to do alone. Giving a bath? Using the stove? Taking a walk? These are pretty basic things that mom's, dad's, and nannies do all the time. That's why I think the MB may have anxiety. But I certainly don't think OP should be insulted. It's good that she can handle these common tasks. Obviously something's up with MB, but it does not sound like she's asking OP to do anything unreasonable for a nanny to do. So why should OP waste energy feeling insulted?[/quote]

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