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[quote=Anonymous]MB here. I usually get home a few minutes before her end time and we debrief for 2-3 minutes while she gets ready to go. If I arrive late, then I pay her, rounding up to the next quarter hour. But I don't pay for the debrief, even if I get home exactly at her end time and she elects to say 5-10min to discuss something about their day. If she wanted a longer conversation and scheduled a meeting about some issue, I would pay her extra. Often, she stays 5-10min more because she just feels like hanging out and chatting. Sometimes, we invite her to stay for dinner. She's a long term nanny with us, so sometimes she just wants to stay longer. I don't pay for that time and she never asks because it is very clear on both sides that she is never obligated to stay after her end time. And before anyone asks, if she chooses to stay for dinner, she does so as a guest and does no work at all. After her end time, all care for DD is on me, whether she is there or not.[/quote]
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