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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a mom and can tell you that when I have a day to focus solely on my kids it feels entirely different than when I have to focus on my kids, plus errands, plus other household management, plus being a decent spouse, plus thinking about which bills to pay...you get the idea. I think you're underestimating the value of being able to focus on one job at a time. When I'm home with my kids on the weekend my attention is divided by many more jobs other than just my kids. I don't sit down during the weekends. My nanny sits down for a couple of hours each day. [/quote]

Not OP but another nanny and I don't sit down all day either.

Don't you have a husband to help you on weekends?  I am alone with my charges all day long and do have their laundry and cooking to attend to as well as their errands.  I nanny for a newborn and a 3.5 year old - I don't generally get a lot of time to focus on one thing at a time either.  So I am doing basically what you are doing but without the help of my husband or any second adult.

Plus they are YOUR KIDS.

OP wasn't even complaining about her work - just her MBs whining as if she, the MB, has is so hard.  [/quote]

I have a husband. On weekends, we are home with four kids. Nanny has only two kids all day. On weekends, we still do laundry; we sort clothes. Shop for shoes. Plan meals for the week and grocery shop. Go to the hardware store. Run around to sports, activities, etc. Plan birthday parties. Fix the toilet that keeps running. Replace light bulbs. Check and respond to work emails. Our kids are only one of many responsibilities. There is a HUGE difference if I decide to focus only on kids or kid tasks and leave aside the other vast pile of work - mental and physical - that is a part of my usual weekend.  Weekdays with just my two younger kids at home feels like vacation. [/quote]

Yes, I am sure your nanny has it so easy (her life is a vacation) and your life is so, so hard!  Poor you, PP.  How awful things must be for you!!  Maybe you could get your husband to do something so it doesn't all fall on you!  You do everything!

You poor, poor thing - forced to have four children!  And how lucky for your nanny to never have to ever see your two older kids even when they are sick or on vacation or when they come home from school.

Your life truly is hell, PP.  You are absolutely right in never acknowledging what your nanny does for your younger kids - her life is a vacation caring for your children five days a week (Your weekend is just two days, right PP? -- never mind it doesn't matter -- your two days are much harder than her five days with your children).  [/quote]

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