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[quote=Anonymous]Why is grandma stepping in? Is the nanny getting flustered and saying "I can't do this - you do it" or is your mom jumping in when it is difficult? Your mom needs to not jump in - at all - even if it has been awhile. She can offer suggestions of what works for her, but if she jumps in, all that is happening is your nanny is going to feel more and more like she can't figure it out (and that it is being reported back to you), and your child WILL start to favor your mom as she gets older.

My daughter wouldn't take a bottle from my own husband when I was transitioning back to work, if I was there. She'd nurse or take a bottle from me, but not him. He would get frustrated, I would get frustrated, I'd jump in. I finally just left (because I had no choice) and the first day sucked, and then they figured it out and it was fine. (He came up with the idea of giving her a bottle in the bath, which was where she was most relaxed anyway, and then once she realized it wasn't so bad she just took it any time.)[/quote]

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