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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - 22:51 - why do you assume I'm not the mom most of the time or that working parents don't "step up?" The reason I'm so pressed for backup care is because I only work 20 hours per week so the time I'm there I really need to be there if at all possible. Also, as I said in the original post I don't get paid if I don't work so while we're still paying our nanny for that time because we respect her guaranteed hours, I'm not bringing in any income to offset that. I also take plenty of sick days when my kids are sick since they usually prefer to stay home with me, even though they love our nanny. Not everyone has an unlimited amount of sick time to spread out between myself, two kids and now another adult. Your comments are nasty and unnecessary. I don't know whether you're a nanny or an MB but I hope you don't talk to your children with that judgmental assuming tone.[/quote] Wow you only work 20 hours a week and you need all this help??? My mother and father both worked 50 hours a week and never had a nanny or sitter or backup. The current generation of parents is so lazy, it's no wonder all these overweight under-achieving kids are the result =/[/quote] huh? so both parents worked out of the house 50 hours and had NO care? if someone works out of their home they need care - doesn't matter if it's not full time. jesus! OP - ignore these posters!! They are just trolls or probably bitter nannies. We have backup care thru work but it is BH Advantage and doesn't require the 24 hour notice. I would probably talk to your nanny about also giving you a little more notice. My nanny usually texts me the night before giving me the heads up so we can start working on a plan. But I would also recommend your neighborhood list serve as well as see if there are other neighborhood moms who employ a nanny that you could potentially set up a backup share relationship in case's like this?[/quote]
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