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[quote=Anonymous]I never said I would not pay overtime. We have always paid our employees overtime. I said it was a nice gesture of her to refuse on the 15-30 mins extra she worked on two days, because she had not finished her chores. Had she worked for an extra hour or three hours, then without a doubt i would pay her for the work she did. Maybe if you read the whole thread you would of realized that. I didn't come here trying to find ways to take advantage of our employee. I came here for advice on trying to tell her how we feel without insulting/hurting her feelings while keeping everyone happy. Pretty tired of getting attacked from the few here, when i have treated our new live in with respect and show her great appreciation. No one said I dump my kids on her when off duty. She comes into our space. I should not have to put my 2 year old in a high chair or take him away from our gated family room because she wants to sit and watch tv with them. All I was asking is how do I tell her nicely, that from 7pm (time she finished) to 9pm (time kids go to bed), I would like to spend it alone with my family. I am sure most of you would not want to hangout with your boss 24/7 and vice versa[/quote]
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