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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe she's not aware she died.
Maybe she is and does not care.
Maybe her mother was a horrible woman that abused your nanny

She didn't tell you for a reason... But you just go on ahead and pry because your feelings are what matter here just ignore your nanny's cues...[/quote]

OP here.  Yes, our nanny is aware that her mother died and she was very close to her mother.  Her mother was, from all accounts, a good woman.  I understand that she didn't tell me for a reason.  I have no intention of "prying" now or ever with her.  [/quote]

I'm glad you don't plan on prying.

All Ican say is apperances aren't always what they seem.

On the outsie the family I grew up with was perfect and loving and we were so close.

The reality was far from that.

In fact I originally became a nanny to get out of my family situation.

A couple of years ago I lost a relative that most people expect you to be devastated over.

I have not and still not mentioned it to my employers.

I have run into people who heard though the grapevine that this person passed.

All of them expressing their condolences and how awful it must be for me to have lost this wonderful person.

Not so much. I'd rather they didn't say anything, but I get unless you've lived it you don't understand it.

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