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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think nannies need raises every year especially if it's a long term 3-10 years with the same nanny. But replacing a great nanny just because seems crazy. Children will get used to other caregivers and teachers in Gymboree classes, ballet, soccer, preschool from the age of 2-5 then elementary school. That is a lot of new people to get used to. Why take away a core person on their life just because. [/quote] Because I should be their only core person. A nanny is not their mom, she is a helper. I don't think it's healthy letting your kids get attached to another woman for 10 years. When they start accidentally calling her mom it's time to go.[/quote] I'm sorry that you feel so insecure as a mom. No decent Nanny aims to replace parents. They do, however, aim to be an additional force of love in the lives of their charges. Love is not finite - just because your child(ren) feel love for their Nanny doesn't mean they love you less.[/quote]
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