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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just get a new Au pair. I feel bad for her and she'll be miserable with a host mom like you. Ugh [/quote]

Why?  I am a caring host mom, who really treats our au pair like family.  Should I call the police on my 6 year old?[/quote]

Nothing you've posted makes you seem like a caring host mom.  You've been angry with her reaction, annoyed, and worried how she'll treat your son. Haven't acknowledged various pps who said she may have been assaulted before and that's why she's reacting like this. Did you see the incident?  [/quote]

I do understand something may have happened before and I dont expect her to tell me if she doesnt want to, but I have no way of knowing or predicting what my son will do.  I hugged her, said I was sorry, and asked what I could have done or do to make it better.  What else should I do?[/quote]

Not be mad at her for reacting as she did?  I get it, you will never get it.   Which is why you're better of re matching [/quote]

WHo said I was mad at her???! I am just confused as to my next steps.  [/quote]

[quote]I am back and forth between mad at her reaction and mad at my son.[/quote]

I don't even think you realized you said this, or even that you feel this way. That may very well be the problem. She's very upset, for whatever reason, and you really don't get to judge that. This is not her fault whatsoever, and she may be picking up on the fact that you expect her to just get over it. Your post also indicates that this is not the first time he's done something like this, and it may not be the first time he's done it to her. I agree with others that you'll probably need to rematch. Not because she's so upset, but because you can't be supportive and want it all neatly swept under the rug. [/quote]

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