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[quote=Anonymous]We just moved here but in our previous city we had to let go of our nanny after catching her in lies about where she was during the day with our child. Our child was missing her regular naps, meals and even classes because our nanny "met a mom in the park who wanted to pay for babysitting playdates". We were never told, but figured it out quite quickly, gave the nanny a warning about her priorities, she chose to lie about whereabouts and get belligerent. The trust was broken and we got another nanny within 2 weeks. OP - do not nonchalantly pay someone else's nanny to babysit or drive you, your nanny or your child. Bad idea. Do you know the other family? Is there a mutual understanding? Otherwise, there is often a breach of contract and a real conflict of interest is created. In our case, our nanny started lying to us and the quality of care went down. We saw this via our nursery camera (why is our child gone for 4+ hours during naptime?) and in our whiney, overtired toddler whose schedule was dictated by "the other mom's kid's schedule." [/quote]
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