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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have tried all the nanny tricks to manage tantrums I know. I do not expect perfection or model behavior all the time. I do expect to be treated with respect and not like the servant or have violent behavior directed toward me. I do expect to be working towards the goal of appropriate ways of expressing emotions. My biggest issue is with the parents I do not feel they have my back or at least willing to work with me. I've tamed some terrible fit throwers but I worked with the parents as a team. I did have a heart to heart with them today and asked them to talk with each other and see where we want to go I am willing to work together on the behavior and give it a try but they I need them to be 100% honest about their expectations and not say one thing to me and when I try and enforce it not support me. So we'll see[/quote] What do you mean being treated like a servant? A toddler doesn't know what it means and if they throw stuff at you chances are they are throwing it at everybody. It's great to work towards better behavior, but I think you might be taking some stuff too personally due to lack of experience with this age group. If it's any help you can go to the general parenting discussion forum and read about all the tantrums kids throw with the parents - no nannies involved, all the same challenges.[/quote]
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