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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm sympathetic.  I am.  We are the one with the AP who drank and drove and crashed the car and lied, and we still didn't rematch right away.  We waited until the SECOND accident, a week later, before rematching.  Just writing that makes me sick to my stomach.

SO I'm definitely not pointing at you alone or even primarily when I say this, but please can we all print out OP's posting from above about how she was trying to be nice (to an irresponsible AP) and use that as a reminder of what we are doing here?  We are inviting APs into our home to be part of our family IN EXCHANGE FOR RESPONSIBLE AND SAFE CHILDCARE AND FOR BEING KIND AND THOUGHTFUL HOUSEHOLD MEMBERS.  This AP failed at all those things miserably -  WEEKS AGO.  So did our AP from the summer.  So why are we HMs STILL "trying to be nice?"  Have we internalized the message of the troll on this board that all HPs are evil and are overcompensating?  I mean, come on.  It was NICE ENOUGH that OP was still housing this girl three weeks later, but to give her her personal car to go to Baltimore?  Let's all please take a lesson from this.
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