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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No,  I'm not the troll who stirs anything up, PP. I'm someone who disagrees with you. If you don't know the difference between the two, you should probably avoid the Internet.

Even the OP admits that this incident isn't a huge deal. Read her first post if you can't remember that part. The nanny's problem is that she's projecting this into some imagined red flag that is going to require her to walk on eggshells.

It's a onsie. It isn't a big deal and encouraging the nanny to make it a big deal is ridiculous. [/quote]

Is not the onesie that's the concern, it's the suggestion that the mother may have a very difficult time reconciling herself to leaving her baby with a nanny - may be inclined to resent their bond - and otherwise become a toxic employer.

I posted earlier that my MB made some similarly odd requests and then relaxed and all has been fine for years. They were red flags for me, too, at the time but it all turns out fine. Hopefully this is just a transitioning challenge for the mother and she will enthusiastically encourage her nanny and child to bond.[/quote]

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