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[quote=Anonymous]I'm a nanny who is happy to occasionally unload the dishwasher, wash a pan left in the sink or fold adult laundry if it happens to be in the dryer. Having said that, I can understand why the nanny might be reluctant to do "light housekeeping." In trying to be flexible and a "team player" these sorts of things become expected overtime. So, unloading the dishwasher becomes unloading the dishwasher every single day (including weekend dishes), washing every pot and pan from the previous nights dinner, and folding adult laundry every single time I try to put child laundry in the dryer. Eventually your MB asks you to clean all the baseboards and trim in her house with your spare time (the 30 minutes I allow myself for lunch while the kids nap). If you don't do these things, your bosses begin to look at you as lazy and unmotivated, when these things weren't even your responsibility to begin with. You didn't express your expectations in the beginning. This is on you, not her. Clearly explain what you want and assure her it will not turn into job creep...then follow through with that promise.[/quote]
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