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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know how old the people telling you not to give a reason are vs the few telling you to give a reason, but I suspect it's the younger nannies w/o much life experience who are telling you not to give a reason. As you get older, like 35+ you start to lose your filter and have a much lower tolerance for BS. I'm 41 and would definitely give a reason. Just how blunt I was might vary depending on the circumstances and my mood at the time, but I'd definitely give a truthful reason.[/quote] We are telling her not to get into the reason because there is no point. You can be as blunt as you wish, but this family is not going to trust the nanny over grandma. Furthermore, the specific nature of this issue makes it likely that her reason ("I feel that you do not trust me and are undermining me by blaming me for injuries.") is going to be interpreted by this crazy family as "She quit because she kept hurting our child and couldn't take responsibility." That is a poisonous reference to have out there. [/quote]
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