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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My sister was murdered by her estranged husband in full sight of the children.  He threatened to kill her if she ever tried to leave him with the kids. He drank and used meth. Once she called the police when she was frightened after he was treating their toddler abusively.  Worried that he might lose his job, she retracted the claim. She hid a lot from her family, friends and employer due to shame and fear of losing her job.  He looked for her at her job, the children's daycare, her home and finally found her at a friend's, where he badly injured her friend's husband (trying to defend her) and viciously murdered her using a weapon he had concealed on him the whole day. The guy had no record, a stable job, and a graduate degree.  This nanny is not telling you the whole story.  Ask yourself if you want to take the chance of putting you and your family at risk to be collateral damage in their relationship. [/quote]
PP, I am so sorry about what has happened in your family. I'm in tears right now. I can hardly imagine that magnitude of pain. Thank you for sharing your experience here with us. Hugs to you. How is your sister's child today? How are you and your family doing?[/quote]

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