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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It would be a terrible thing to punish her for actions that aren't her own, especially if she herself is a victim. I think it would be appropriate to ask her about his arrest record. If you want to hire her, I would let her know that you are aware of his record and that he is under no circumstances to come anywhere near her or your children while she is at work, that you will use a nanny cam, and that if you at any point feel that your children are in danger or that you can't trust her that it will be cause for immediate dismissal. [/quote] Her actions were dating him, marrying him, and staying with an abuser and law breaker. She is not fault free.[/quote]
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