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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. This thread is what is wrong with DCUM. I politely asked a question. I fully agreed I may have been over-reacting and have no problem with anyone telling me so. What I have a problem with is the way people say it. You know nothing about me or my DC yet you are calling him names and putting me down.

Our previous nanny was with us for 3 years and had infinite patience so I guess I'm comparing the new nanny to her. And before everyone jumps on me and says I can't keep a nanny or I'm the reason she left - she left because we moved. She cried in her last day because she knew she would miss us.

I'm so done with DCUM. I don't know why people can't politely give advice. If the nannies here want to have good employers there is no reason they can't help people in a nice way. All this does is make me defensive and annoyed instead of saying you know what, I am over-reacting. I guess the anonymity of the forum makes people feel like they can be bullies. [/quote]

I am not a nanny but an MB and I stated that you over-reacted and told you that you were teaching your child inaccurate use of the English language.  I think most of the negative comments you received have been from other mothers and not nannies.  [/quote]

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