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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is the OP. I do occasionally WFH in our current situation, and while the first few times weren't perfect, we've been successful in setting boundaries -- I'm in my office, my daughter knows our nanny is taking care of her, etc. I know maternity leave is a different issue and that nannying for a full-time SAHM probably isn't a walk in the park, but I'm hopeful that with the right situation, we can make it work.[/quote]

You sound like a responsible employer and a thoughtful woman, OP.  My advice would be to keep the lines of communication open with your nanny and make expectations clear from day one.  You'll need to set firm boundaries with your little girl - for your sake, the new baby's sake, your daughter's sake and the nanny's sake.  It is far more healthful for you daughter to know and understand "the rules" of the work day and be expected to live by them (and rewarded for it).  Just be prepared her jealousy of the new baby which will complicate her emotions as well as your own.  Kids are smart - don't let your daughter play you against the nanny or the nanny against you.   Back up your nanny (just like you do with your husband) in regard to your daughter.  Present a united front.

You and your new nanny can make it work.  It helps that you already know it won't be easy - I'm fairly sure your new nanny (if she has experience) knows it will be difficult as well.  [/quote]

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