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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm exhausted just reading your situation - I can't imagine dealing with it. I'm an MB. Here are my gut reactions for what I'd do (recognizing this is infinitely more difficult when you're juggling the personal relationships): - explain to your nanny that this has all gotten way too complicated. From now on pay her an hourly rate (back into if you wish in a way that works with her take-home understanding) and no insurance. Offer the hourly rate you feel comfortable with and tell her that is what you can do - take it or leave it. - tell her that if that doesn't work for her you completely understand but you will need to find another nanny. - maybe just go find another nanny anyway. Other nannies will be great for your kids and they will handle a transition. For the hourly rates you are paying you can get truly superior experienced care, very easily, even for only 30 hrs a week. You could get excellent care tomorrow from an agency for less than you're paying now. This is not worth the level of aggravation and frustration it's causing you. Your nanny is WAY out of line and I think she's really taking advantage of you.[/quote] Another MB and I agree with this exactly. [/quote]
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