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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You can try another sitter who might get everything done, but not be so great with your kids. Pick your priorities.[/quote]

This is ridiculous. Anyone with half a brain can figure out how to help kids play independently so they can get a few chores done. OP, you're not looking for a "magical person" - you're looking for a competent nanny. If I were you, I'd have a conversation with her where you reiterate your expectations for what she gets done, and very clearly spell out what they are (2 loads of laundry a week washed, folded, and put away; dinner prepared according to instructions every night; remind children to clean up after themselves etc. etc.) Give her a week or two to prove that she actually cares, and then re-evaluate. Anyone who couldn't handle your requests clearly should not be a nanny.

And I'm not saying this as a vindictive MB. I'm a nanny. I also manage to take care of laundry, cooking, and tidying despite having a very rambunctious 2yo underfoot. I love my job, but rocket science it is not.[/quote]

+ 1.   I'm a part time evening nanny for 3 kids.  My job varies every night and I'm always juggling several things.  Sometimes its getting the two older kids to their activities, sometimes it's tons of homework and projects, and other times its just playing with everyone.  The youngest is 16 months so big difference in age and interests.  I'll have them play independently while I make dinnner, sweep, load the dishwasher, etc...   Your nanny should definitely be able to multitask.

After the kids are in bed, I finish cleaning and make sure the parents come home to a very clean house.  This was never asked of me but it just seems part of the job.  If she is an older nanny, she should know this.

I get paid $20 per hour and I've been with them for almost 6 years.  I don't have guaranteed hours but I think that's a great benefit to offer!

Good luck:)[/quote]

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