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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]But, you pay her, right, PP? If you pay her, that's called working and students on F1 visas have work restrictions.[/quote] The stipend we give her is not based on her work. We'd give her that money no matter what since she needs to buy books, her transportation to go to school, her food while she's there, material for her classes, etc. [/quote] So what you're saying is that if she decided she didn't have time to be so "helpful" with your household and your kids, you would still house her and feed her and give her spending money out of the kindness of your heart. And then pay an actual employee to do the stuff she no longer does… I find that pretty unlikely… but maybe you really are that kind, generous … and wealthy.[/quote]
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