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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]
While I agree with everything you have said, I hope you have had a serious conversation with your nanny about your concerns before you replace her. She may think since she has been around so long that you consider "part of the family" to some extent and just loves your children fully. Its hard to get extremely attached to a child you have cared for mulitple years. Even the most experienced nanny can bond a little to much. SO please let her know because it is her job and if she loves the children she will change her behavior to stay with you. Plus loss of income would really motivate her to change.[/quote]

I'm the poster you're responding to here.  I agree with your thoughts.  Our situation actually goes well beyond simply an over attachment to the kids.  We have someone who is wanting to move in, hoping we'll help her with medical needs (and HUGELY over sharing about medical information), crying to us daily about her personal situations, etc...  - on top of some over the top stuff with the kids.  I actually have had more than one conversation with the nanny about boundary related issues, but we're now getting well beyond that.  I was only including the part that was relevant to OP's situation.[/quote]

Wow, I'm sorry to hear that. I hope it all get resolved quickly[/quote]

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