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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let's be honest here. A surrogate leaves the baby anyway. A nanny gets attached to the kids. How is this different. [/quote] All of it put together is just too much to ask of someone. Do you have children? If you have ever carried a child, you understand how difficult it is for anyone, even surrogates to part with that child afterward. That baby grew inside you. You talked to it. Sang to it. Questioned you every decision and its consequences for the little life you were carrying. To the give birth to that baby, hand it over to someone else, and then care for it every day, but leave it in the evening, to have no say in the big decisions that concern that baby but to have to carry them out whether you agree or not. And to then one day have the job end and that child is out of your daily life, after caring for him/her for however many years. That is too much to ask of even the strongest of people, let alone your employee. Just don't OP. there has to be someone else you could ask, or go through an agency. [/quote]
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