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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do both kids take an afternoon nap?
Honestly, I'm appalled that she's lived here for 20+ years and hasn't even attempted to learn the language. I was in a foreign country for two weeks and learned at least a few basic phrases.

Let's look at some of the things you wrote in your original post:
"She try to get us to pay [taxes] using manipulative methods." When you gave her money to help out with it, she put it in the wrong account. 
She didn't have time for laundry. Did she say why? If I don't have time to get to a specific thing (laundry, dishes, etc) it's because of a specific reason. 
"She is now few minutes late each day and we can see her standing in front of the house and chatting on the phone." Absolutely unacceptable. Is there a family emergency going on? 
"She ignores me some time, i.e. just would not do something we agreed on." Why do you accept this terrible behavior? 
True, she has been great with your kids.

"I also feel bad since I am not sure she can find a job that pays her what we pay her since she does not speak English and her native language is not Spanish." Not.Your.Problem. Eventually, you won't need her anymore. Why not bite the bullet now when everyone is unhappy? 
Allergy to cleaning supplies? What sort of cleaning was she doing?

I'd find a new nanny. The caveat is that you won't find one as inexpensive as her. [/quote]

Cleaning the nanny does involves kids' rooms, she cleans the dishes, table, kitchen floor , etc. after their lunch, she wipes the floor of the leaving room where they play, she would clean kids bathroom once in a while.   she does not do what I would consider to be deep cleaning like scrubbing the oven or washing windows[/quote]

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