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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I understand that in traditional workplaces it would be ludicrous to ask a boss for a background check. But then again, in most corporate positions, you know your boss has been background checked because it's standard procedure. Nannying has the potential to be an isolating job, you're entering someone's home, there is no easy out if something goes horribly wrong. And if you're a live-in or an au pair, you don't necessarily have anyone close who can be your contingency plan. I've worked for five families and never background checked any of them, but with one family my life was literally in danger and I had to leave the home immediately. A little due diligence on my part would have shown me that this was not a situation I should have ever entered. I was stranded on the other end of the country, had nobody to call, and ended up staying in a homeless shelter for a day or two while I fought for my final paycheck. Since then, I have always made sure I have several months' worth of savings, at least one exit strategy, and if my current family hadn't have been semi high-profile I would have requested a background check. [/quote] Wow. What happened to you, could happen to any nanny. The only way reduce the risk to be referred by someone you completely trust, or get background checks and reference letters with contact info. [/quote]
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