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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a nanny in a share.
MB #1 is just over 5 months pregnant. 
She has yet to tell me.  I've known for 3 months (no more wine glasses to wash, saltine packages everywhere, multiple doctor's appointments, etc).  We've never had a particularly close relationship, although it is good in a professional way.
I have to pretend not to notice her giant abdomen.  It's pretty strange.

MB #2 and I are much closer. We have been from the beginning.
I finally asked MB2 what was going on and why I didn't know.
She said that MB1 asked them not to tell me as they (MB1/DB1) wanted to do it themselves.
This was over a month ago.
MB2 assured me that the share would go on like normal, as that is what the two sets of parents had decided on.

Can anyone venture a guess as to why these people will not tell me about the pregnancy and at what point I should ask them about it?
At this rate, I may not officially find out until her maternity leave ends.[/quote]
I don't think you should ask until they tell you, and I don't think you should assume that this newborn will be your charge. For all you know, they have other plans. This issue doesn't really need to come up until much later.  When it comes closer to delivery and her pregnancy will be the talk of the household, then you may ask.  At five months, sorry, it's none of your business, and I say this without negativity. It just isn't.[/quote]

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