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[quote=Anonymous]I am a nanny and when I started out I worked part time jobs.  During this time, food was always provided.  I can see how a nanny could simply see this as the norm.  Babysitting gigs also provide food.  I am now a professional nanny, I receive benefits and higher end pay.  I provide my own food, though may snack on their food as well as share mine with the children.

Is this her first full time position?  In handling it, I would use PPs suggestion in saying that this is your first time hiring a full time nanny and that you simply didn't think about this situation.  Then, instead of saying that you can't afford it, I would stress that it makes your shopping and planning more difficult.  I would offer that she help herself to a snack on occasion or pantry items, such as butter and mayo, but that you would prefer that she supply her own food.  I would also let her know that she is welcome to leave foods there when necessary.

I also think that her pay and benefits should play a role in this decision.  If she is paid well and has vacation and holiday as well as guaranteed hours, this shouldn't be a tough decision.  [/quote]

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